"I knew I was going to be a good dad," Chris says with a reminiscent grin as he recalls the moment he found out he was going to be a father at just 16 years old. "I was nervous, but kids have always kind of loved me" he continued. Now, at 22, he is a proud father of three and is determined to create the stable, fulfilling life he always envisioned for his family. With the support of The Night Ministry, Chris is pursuing his GED and dreams of continuing his education. Whether in business management, culinary arts, or youth counseling, Chris approaches the future with passion and a belief that his possibilities are endless.
Chris and his four siblings grew up on Chicago's West Side, facing housing instability and periods of homelessness throughout their childhood. About a year ago, Chris found himself at a crossroads—without a stable place to live but with an unrelenting determination. Chris' friend Tavion introduced him to The Night Ministry, and from that moment, Chris' life began to change.Through The Night Ministry's Pathways Program, which provides long-term housing and intensive life skills coaching, Chris began laying the foundation for a brighter future. He was connected to The Dovetail Project, a program designed to empower young Black and Brown fathers with the skills and support they need to succeed as parents and community members. Reflecting on the program, Chris shares, "It's more like a program for young adults," highlighting the invaluable life skills the program offers such as credit-building education and job training.
Chris' journey has not been without its challenges. From navigating the complexities of young parenthood to coping with the loss of a close friend, Chris has faced moments of doubt and hardship. He found solace and strength through the support of The Night Ministry staff. "They really care," Chris emphasizes. "They don't have to show up for us, but they do." Chris hopes to give back by working with youth in the future. "I want people to know it gets better and you're really not alone."
Chris' story brings attention to an often-overlooked issue: the need for resources and programs for young fathers. Initiatives like The Dovetail Project fill a critical gap by empowering young men to become active, engaged parents and leaders in their communities.
"It's up to us to break the cycle," Chris says. With his determination and the support of The Night Ministry, he is building a life rooted in stability and hope for his children.
Chris' journey is a testament to the power of community and the impact of programs like Pathways and The Dovetail Project. As one of the thousands of young people served by The Night Ministry each year, his story is a powerful reminder of how dedicated resources and compassionate support can transform lives, break generational cycles of instability, and pave the way for brighter futures in Chicago.